tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-83060260358081183142024-03-14T04:55:32.884+08:00Heyho! Let's get married!nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-51065105823942646702010-12-21T12:53:00.010+08:002010-12-22T08:00:05.289+08:00Alhamdulillah :)Alhamdulillah :)<br /><div><div><div><div><div>Everything went smoothly as planned.</div><div>I love both my wedding solemnization and reception.</div><br /><div>Will start reviewing both events soon.<br /></div><div>Teaser..<br /></div><br /><p align="center"><img style="WIDTH: 190px; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5552999151620356930" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_BHqKHRAraLg/TRA3Tq5ge0I/AAAAAAAAACU/SBDFP7szHOA/s320/waiting.jpg" /> </p><p align="center"><img style="WIDTH: 417px; HEIGHT: 283px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553001464404258050" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_BHqKHRAraLg/TRA5aSsKLQI/AAAAAAAAACk/Y4Bwjm2bUAk/s320/with%2Balg2.jpg" /> </p><p align="center"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_BHqKHRAraLg/TRA73taAVaI/AAAAAAAAACs/xZi9CSg4EXY/s1600/with%2Bmertuas%2Bfamily.jpg"><img style="WIDTH: 421px; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553004168815334818" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_BHqKHRAraLg/TRA73taAVaI/AAAAAAAAACs/xZi9CSg4EXY/s400/with%2Bmertuas%2Bfamily.jpg" /></a> </p><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 422px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 311px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553288395347311154" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_BHqKHRAraLg/TRE-X3v5ujI/AAAAAAAAADE/7LUMdv_eMjA/s400/combo%2Bwed.jpg" /> <p align="center">credits to those who tag me on FB & Ayub from Kchack Photo (my sis's OP)!<span style="font-size:78%;"><br /></span><span style="font-size:78%;">(note: am still waiting for my OP's photo)</span></p>Alhamdulillah :)<br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div></div></div></div></div>nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-30598540506818718422010-12-11T07:40:00.003+08:002010-12-11T07:50:39.488+08:0027hours + 20min to go!Assalamualaikum People,<br /><br />In 27 hours + 15 minits, i' ll be his "Mrs." ;-)<br />Pls pray that the ceremony will run smoothly as planned.<br />And doakan kami juga yay!<br /><br />ps: 'nowicannotspeak' finally shouts "heyho! let's get married!"nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-65917152082705927892010-12-06T12:40:00.004+08:002010-12-06T13:07:04.834+08:006 and NZ<div align="justify">oh my.. my.. 6 days to go.. agagaga.</div><div align="justify">there's a lot of dramas lately.</div><div align="justify">but close friends keep reminding me to be as positive as possible.</div><div align="justify">cantik luar cantik dalam kata one of them.. hehe.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">but one thing for sure that makes me tersangat lagi amat happy last friday is..</div><div align="justify">when i managed to buy our honeymoon ticket to NZ with the total price RM906!!</div><div align="justify">RM906 = airasia return tickets to/fro NZ for two(2) persons incl. tax & insurance!!</div><div align="justify">ok fine meal & baggage we have'nt include. but we can always decide on that later, upgrade online pun boleh kan :) </div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">heh, majlis belum setel pun lagi dah berangan trip h/moon ;p</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">alright guys, please pray hard that our events (both me & my sis's solemnization and reception) will run smoothly as we planned. pray hard also that the weather will be fine. and not to forget, sila doakan kesihatan & keselamatan bakal pengantin, keluarga pengantin, rakan-rakan terdekat pengantin & vendors yang terlibat. amin :-)</div>nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-27250604352924017192010-11-18T16:12:00.003+08:002010-11-18T16:26:48.200+08:00dua puluh empat ;)sakit tangan ikat riben.<br />and 24 days to go!<br /><br />tomorrow will be having our first fitting for wedding dress.<br />cincin nikah juga sudah siap. but haven't had the time to go n pick up.<br />will be out station tomorrow for close friend's wedding and yet wedding preps are still hanging here and there.<br /><br />wedding cards dah distribute. all the posted ones je la.<br />for officemate.. this coming week to be distributed.<br /><br />the amount in my saving's account is getting lesser and lesser.<br />(aci tak kalau guna duit, makin lama makin bertambah byk? ;p)<br /><br />tarik nafas. hembus nafas. berusaha. bersedia. 24 days to go!nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-56348056751542452732010-11-13T22:55:00.002+08:002010-11-13T22:58:03.802+08:0029!<p align="center"><object height="385" width="480"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/hvmmwU4zzt8?fs=1&hl=en_US"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/hvmmwU4zzt8?fs=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object></p>Words can't say what love can do.. I'll be there for you :)nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-87519612604262631052010-11-06T20:56:00.005+08:002010-11-13T22:59:53.482+08:00Latest Updates for Week 1, Nov 2010!Preparing for wedding could be tiring. (More than tiring I should say.. plus tens etc. erk!)<br />Progress for the past two(2) days:<br />1) Booked set sampin for FH & Future Brother In Law (FBIL)<br />2) Visited one apartment that might be our future crib<br />3) Went to The Curve to buy wedding shoes for my lil' sis (a.k.a my financial partner hehe)<br />4) Buat tampal manik kat awning tudung kat The Curve<br />5) Tied ribbon for our wedding cards (baru 50 keping je muahahaha)<br />6) Cut ribbon for our doorgifts (ok, 1000pcs success!)<br />7) Basuh bekas for doorgifts (ok, baru 500 bekas ja.. 500 more to go aiyaya)<br /><br />3 events to organize. My nikah. My lil sis's nikah. Our combine reception.<br />Oh Allah, please give me strenght to make things as beauty as it should be. Amin.<br /><br />p/s: To my 9 budak hitam, girls I miss u a lot! I wish u guys were here. (So that korang boleh tolong-tolong aku, macam mana korang selalu tolong aku time event mgss dulu-dulu! sob3x)nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-64174798146016073672010-10-28T22:50:00.005+08:002010-11-01T22:14:10.450+08:00house hunting!<div align="justify">apartment hunting to be exactly.</div><div align="justify">fuh. for the past few days, me and future husband(FH) were 'google'-ing here and there to find any apartment that will suit our future need.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">criteria I: location</div><div align="justify">-must be in the middle disctance of our working place. (note: FH is working far away in the south of selangor, whereas me myself is working in the middle of kl)</div><div align="justify">-must be near to at least any kedai runcit or kedai mamak ka apa ka.. haha senang nak tapau</div><div align="justify">-must be near to <span style="color:#999999;">my</span> parents house.. muahahaha.. senang nak melawat la ;p </div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">criteria II: rent price</div><div align="justify">-i first thought of finding somekind of apartment with <span style="color:#999999;">rm500</span> but then gilo macam tak jumpa langsung. the least is <span style="color:#999999;">rm750</span> tu pun level paling atas & paling hujung. gilos. the average price is around <strong>RM800-RM1000</strong>. ok habes gaji aku nanti!</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">criteria III: facilities</div><div align="justify">-must have at least one covered parking.. <span style="font-size:78%;">mampus kalau parking merata-rata kang aku tak ingat mana aku park kereta, aku dah la jenis cepat lupa kat mana parking ;p</span></div><div align="justify"></div><p align="justify">ok, yet we still haven't found one. a few days ago i've tried to call 3 potential owners and guess what?..<br /><br /><strong>1st call : Owner XXX, Apartment D**** M****, Rent Price: <span style="color:#999999;">RM850</span></strong><br />I dialled 018******** in hoping to speak with the owner. In return i got this:<br />"Harap maaf nombor yang anda dial tidak ada dalam perkhidmatan kami".. Blurfphrhrh<br />Memangla.. the number itself tu pun dah macam tak betul, ada ke cell with 11 digits?. Macam pelik la pulak.. normally cellphone no. used to be 10digits ja kan?. hurmm.<br /><br /><strong>2nd call : Owner YYY, Apartment D**** M****, pun Rent Price: <span style="color:#999999;">RM850</span></strong><br />Dialled 017*******. Was happy to hear the caller ringtone on the other side.<br />Tiba-tiba ja.. jeng-jeng.. a machine answered the call with some scary script below:<br />"Panggilan ini sedang dirakam bagi membantu siasatan lanjutan polis bla3x..".<br />hahaha.. aku dah confuse. ni biar betul ni nak iklan rumah ka apa ni. ok reject!</p><p align="justify"><strong>3rd call : Owner ZZZ, Apartment C*****, Rent Price: <span style="color:#999999;">RM950</span></strong><br />Dialled 012*******. Ok ringtone ringing with normal tone. No answering machine. haha lega.<br />The agent pick up the phone and informed me that the apartment is already taken.<br />Too bad i'm late. Padahal he just advertised that apartment one day before i made that phone call. erk.</p><p align="justify">takpa-takpa. apartment hunting is still on. gals, please pray that we'll find one soon. amin :)<br /><span style="color:#666666;">gilo, december nak duduk, now baru nak cari..hehe.</span></p><p align="justify"><br /><br /></p>nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-53210683454063013432010-10-19T21:47:00.004+08:002010-10-19T22:23:19.540+08:0053 = gilos!<div align="justify">53 days to go! giloss!<br /><br />yet.. still pending..<br /><br />1) borang nikah perempuan - to ask for jurunikah kawasan's signature and submit to jais! (note: borang nikah lelaki - done :)<br /><br />2) canopy majlis akad nikah - awaiting for vendor's quotation<br /><br />2) favors' deco - need to find ribbon ka apa ka @ semuahouse or ssf.<br /><br />3) hantaran's deco - need to send kain alas dulang to my aunt nak minta tolong jahit tepi, oh all the flower deco atas dulang - need to find @ ssf (note: i will not be having any fresh flower for my hantaran deco. reason: my future husband(FH)'s family is staying nun jauh di timur, takut bunga layu kata my sis.. cet)<br /><br />4) tudung akad nikah - can't recall any other place than dezahra. that's the nearest i can reach. plus cutting dia pun nice.<br /><br />5) payung berarak - aiyak.. still no idea.. maybe i need to ronda2 any hyper supermarket ka.. bak kata moose.. mydin ka.. haha<br /><br />6) cincin nikah - aiyoo.. both of us haven't buy cincin nikah for each other, bila mahu beli nih.. have to wait until FH is back from outstation.<br /><br />7) book for groom's sampin & aksesori utk sewa - also have to wait until FH is back from outstation<br /><br />8) ok can't recall any other stuff dah..<br /><br />note: pending list is not in order. yah! please remind me if i missed out anything..agaggaga</div>nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-11715238904995717802010-10-14T23:11:00.007+08:002010-10-14T23:36:29.494+08:00Kisah Cinta Pak Atan & Mak InomAn article back in 2008 that I found which is good for newly wed couples' reading..<br /><div align="center"><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><strong>Pak Atan & Mak Inom<br /></strong>(Artikel Berita Harian – Februari 2008)<br /></div></span><p align="center"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_BHqKHRAraLg/TLcgLshqlVI/AAAAAAAAACM/uSeHClYSqr0/s1600/pak+atan+n+mak+inom.JPG"><img style="WIDTH: 238px; HEIGHT: 186px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5527922452923585874" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_BHqKHRAraLg/TLcgLshqlVI/AAAAAAAAACM/uSeHClYSqr0/s320/pak+atan+n+mak+inom.JPG" /></a></p><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">BAIT lagu berirama keroncong ini masih terdengar-dengar ketika meninggalkan pekarangan kediaman Inom Yon (Mak Inom), 74, dan suami tercinta, Ahmad Hashim, 75, atau lebih senang dipanggil Pak Atan. Seketika, diri turut dibuai kelunakan suara Mak Inom mendendangkan setiap bait sambil sesekali menari di samping Pak Atan yang asyik mengalunkan<br />irama daripada keyboard. </span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">Suasana petang yang hangat bertukar indah dan syahdu melihat keakraban kasih sayang antara keduanya. Sememangnya Pak Atan dan Mak Inom sentiasa dilamun cinta biarpun usia masing-masing menginjak senja. Bergelar datuk dan nenek kepada lima cucu, cinta antara keduanya tetap mencambahkan bunga kasih yang terus berkembang segar hingga kini. </span><span style="font-size:78%;">Kemesraan pasangan ini bukan khayalan pengarah filem tersohor, Yasmin Ahmad semata-mata seperti yang dipaparkan dalam filem arahannya, "Rabun". Inilah keindahan sebenar yang ingin dikongsi anak sulung mereka itu bersama penonton. Walau ada yang menjuihkan bibir, hakikat kehidupan mereka yang sentiasa mesra bagaikan teruna dara baru berjumpa tidak dapat dinafikan. Segalagalanya jelas terpapar pada wajah Mak Inom dan Pak Atan, melalui gerak geri dan panggilan mesra - ‘sayang’ dan ‘darling’ yang sering meniti di bibir. </span></div><span style="font-size:78%;"><div align="justify"><br /></div></span><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">“Beginilah kami selalunya. Lepas sama-sama memasak, uncle main keyboard, auntie pula nyanyi. Ini bukan mengada-ngada. Kemesraan ini lahir spontan daripada hati sejak awal pernikahan lagi. Mungkin bagi kebanyakan orang, kemanisan alam pengantin baru hanya sementara, tetapi kami tetap meneruskannya sehingga kini seperti mandi berdua, berjalan sambil berpegang tangan mahupun ketika tidur juga,” kata Mak Inom. Mengakui awalnya berkahwin bukan atas dasar cinta, Mak Inom dan Pak Atan yang masing-masing baru putus tunang, akhirnya bersetuju disatukan selepas berkenalan tiga bulan kerana kasihankan nasib masing-masing. </span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span> </div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;"></div></span><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">Berpegang kepada kata-kata Hamka, cinta yang berputik daripada belas kasihan lebih berkekalan daripada cinta biasa, Mak Inom tidak ragu-ragu menerima lamaran Pak Atan. Tambahan pula perwatakan Pak Atan yang sempurna pada matanya sudah cukup membuatkan Mak Inom yang baru menamatkan pengajian selama dua tahun di Kirby, Liverpool tertawan pada guru muzik itu. “Bagi saya ketika itu cinta tidak bermakna. Uncle sering merendahkan diri, lembut apabila berkata-kata, tidak banyak cakap dan sering memberi nasihat untuk mententeramkan perasaan saya. Dia juga pandai mengambil hati ayah yang juga menyukainya. Itu yang penting, restu ibu bapa,” katanya. </span></div><span style="font-size:78%;"><div align="justify"><br /></div></span><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">Pak Atan pula cukup tertarik dengan layanan diberikan Mak Inom. Setiap kali bertandang, dirinya dijamu dengan masakan Mak Inom yang memang handal memasak. Bagi Pak Atan, itulah kecantikan sebenar yang dicarinya selama ini. “Kecantikan itu lahir dari hati yang suci. Kecantikan fizikal yang sering diagungkan itu tidak kekal dan jika itulah cinta, ia akan pudar bersamanya. Itulah sebabnya kemesraan hanya dikecapi ketika baru berkahwin. Selepas dua atau tiga tahun, lenyap. Suami jalan di depan, isteri di belakang. Apa salahnya berjalan berpegang tangan seperti masa bercinta dulu? “Saya tidak kisah apa orang nak kata mengenai kemesraan yang kami tunjukkan. Ini isteri saya, suka hati sayalah nak pegang tangan dia atau nak panggil apa. Jangan terkejut kami tetap mandi berdua sehingga kini walaupun ketika berada di rumah saudara mara. Mereka pun tahu dan faham,” katanya. </span><span style="font-size:78%;"></div></span><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">Sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit, pasangan ini tidak menafikan mahligai yang dibina sesekali tetap dilanda badai terutama di awal perkahwinan. Bagaimanapun, sikap tolak ansur dan tidak berdendam membuatkan rumah tangga dibina kekal bahagia. “Kalau bertengkar, kami pergi ke tepi laut supaya anak-anak di rumah tidak dengar. Kami luahkan apa yang tidak puas hati. Bila reda, baru balik. Anak-anak boleh tahu kami bergaduh hanya kerana saya tidak peluk bahu isteri ketika menonton televisyen. Mereka akan kata, mak tak kawan ayah ya?,” kata Pak Atan. </span><span style="font-size:78%;"></div></span><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">Mak Inom yang kesal dengan peningkatan perceraian di kalangan pasangan hari ini, berkata sikap bertolak ansur dan memahami pasangan penting selepas berkahwin. Lumrah masa bercinta memang semua indah, tetapi bila tinggal sebumbung, baru tahu buruk baik masing-masing. “Masa baru berkahwin memang susah sesuaikan diri. Auntie selalu merajuk terutama masa mengandung anak sulung kerana uncle sibuk bermain badminton setiap petang. Auntie luahkan perasaan benci padanya, tetapi jawapannya, tidak ada perkataan benci dalam kamus hidupnya, membuatkan auntie terdiam. Auntie sedar, kita perlu berkorban sedikit dengan menerima seadanya pasangan kita sama ada suka atau tidak kerana itulah dirinya,” katanya. </span><span style="font-size:78%;"></div></span><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">Beliau berkata, isteri perlu bijak memenangi hati suami terutama dari segi makan minumnya selain menghormatinya sebagai ketua keluarga walaupun isteri berkenaan berpangkat lebih tinggi daripada suami. “Jika isteri tidak kisah, tidak mustahil apabila ada wanita lain yang menunjukkan kasih sayang padanya, suami akan jatuh cinta dengan wanita itu. Jangan bersikap mementingkan diri termasuk dalam bab duit. Bila suami susah, kita bantu. Jangan ada konsep duit dia, duit kita tapi duit kita, duit kita. Ini tidak betul. Menjaga kebersihan diri juga penting. Janganlah bau kencing ada dibiarkan sampai suami balik ke rumah,” katanya. </span></div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">Pak Atan turut bersetuju, seorang suami inginkan wanita yang bijak menjaga kebajikan suami. Bagaimanapun, katanya suami juga perlu mengikis ego untuk mengakui kesilapan yang dilakukan pada isteri kerana isteri hanya ingin mendengar suami mengatakan ‘maaf’. Itu sudah cukup melembutkan hatinya. Dalam hubungan ini, katanya, suami harus banyak bersabar berdepan kerenah isteri, begitu juga sebaliknya. “Pandailah ambil hati isteri. Isteri mungkin penat selepas seharian bekerja ditambah dengan kerja rumah. Apa salahnya pada sebelah malam, sebelum tidur, suami urut badan atau kaki isteri. Seorang suami yang mengurut isterinya, akan mengalir dosa-dosa yang ada padanya melalui celah jarinya itu. </span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">“Bantu isteri di dapur juga boleh mengeratkan hubungan. Gurau senda antara suami isteri menambah seri. Mungkin orang lain tak buat macam uncle buat. Bila balik rumah, uncle panggil auntie dengan panggilan uhu…uhu…, itu tanda uncle balik. Bila dengar suara uncle itu, auntie pun sembunyi di dapur, macam main sorok-sorok,” katanya. Memang bertuah jika semua isteri seperti Mak Inom dan semua suami seperti Pak Atan. Sayangnya kebanyakan orang terlalu ego untuk menzahirkan kasih sayang terhadap pasangan khususnya si suami. Entah mengapa, perasaan sayang dan mengambil berat hanya terhad semasa bercinta. Kononnya bukan budaya kita menunjuk-nunjuk depan orang. Apa salahnya budaya yang baik jadi ikutan? </span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">Lihat saja orang Barat, walaupun isterinya itu tidak secantik mana atau gemuk gedempol sekalipun, masih tetap berjalan berpegangan tangan atau memeluk pinggang isterinya. Inilah yang dikatakan cinta sejati, tidak pernah berubah walaupun dimamah usia.</span></div>nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-31772883597044537052010-10-07T21:34:00.004+08:002010-10-07T21:59:53.121+08:00Payung Pengantin: Where to find one?For the past few days, my big sis (<span style="font-size:78%;">she's small in size .. hehe</span>) kept asking me.. "Nanti berarak nak pakai payung apa? Dah ada payung? Nak yang macam mana?.. yada3x.." <span style="font-size:78%;"><-ceh, mcm payung pengantin tu dah taraf canopy dah.. penting you.. hari² dia tanya ;p ..</span><br /><div align="justify"><br /></div>So..<br /><p align="center"><a href="http://pics.classifieds.weddingbee.com/36049.umbrella.jpg"><img style="WIDTH: 400px; HEIGHT: 330px; CURSOR: hand" border="0" alt="" src="http://pics.classifieds.weddingbee.com/36049.umbrella.jpg" /></a></p><div align="justify">Yes, this is it. I don't want any fancy lace umbrella or whatsoever rambu-ramba. I just want a plain big white umbrella. Nothing more. <span style="font-size:78%;">(But of course I'm gonna need four(4) of them.. kata 2 pasangan pengantin kan :) )</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">.</span></div><div align="justify">.</div><div align="justify">.</div><div align="justify">Where to find one ya? Ikea ada ke?</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"></div>nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-7602963817784265802010-10-02T19:29:00.010+08:002010-10-02T20:38:02.512+08:003 Weddings in a Day :)Whoaa.. today me & Wanie managed to attend 3 weddings in a row. Gilo tapi best! Hoho<br /><br />But before that, right early in the morning (around 7.45a.m) I went to Puchong to buy 1000units of dotdotdot<span style="font-size:78%;">(ceh.. rahsia tu..)</span> to be used as packaging for my favors. [[ Thanks to Diana for driving!! Lap u la na! ]]<br /><br />Let's see what I'm going to put in that packaging. Maybe..<br /><br /><div align="center">Sweets.. oh szztt...szztt.. <span style="font-size:78%;">"cair di mulut dan juga di bawah sinaran mentari" ;p</span></div><p align="center"><a href="http://www.freefoto.com/images/11/12/11_12_2---Sweets_web.jpg?&k=Sweets"><img style="WIDTH: 346px; HEIGHT: 216px; CURSOR: hand" border="0" alt="" src="http://www.freefoto.com/images/11/12/11_12_2---Sweets_web.jpg?&k=Sweets" /></a><br /></p><p align="center">Cookies.. oh krapp krapp.. <span style="font-size:78%;">"sekejap ada.. sekejap tak ada.. " ;p<br /></span><br /><a href="http://marianina.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2007/08/Cookies.jpg"><img style="WIDTH: 346px; HEIGHT: 234px; CURSOR: hand" border="0" alt="" src="http://marianina.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2007/08/Cookies.jpg" /></a> </p><p align="center">Marshmallow.. oh yum yum.. <span style="font-size:78%;">but err urr.. where to find halal one ya?</span></p><p align="center"><a href="http://shop.poshbrats.com/ekmps/shops/poshbrats/images/marshmallow-scrub-1220-p.jpg"><img style="WIDTH: 348px; HEIGHT: 227px; CURSOR: hand" border="0" alt="" src="http://shop.poshbrats.com/ekmps/shops/poshbrats/images/marshmallow-scrub-1220-p.jpg" /></a></p><p align="center">Cupcakes.. yummiesss..<span style="font-size:78%;"> uh I wish I could have Wondermilk for my wedding ;p</span></p><p align="center"><a href="http://lareverydaygourmet.com/files/QuickSiteImages/Chocolate-Raspberry-Cupcake.jpg"><img style="WIDTH: 348px; HEIGHT: 271px; CURSOR: hand" border="0" alt="" src="http://lareverydaygourmet.com/files/QuickSiteImages/Chocolate-Raspberry-Cupcake.jpg" /></a> </p><p align="center">(credits to Mr. Google for pics)<br /></p><p align="left">Uh uh uh I wish to have all of them for my wedding favors. But what can I do, I can only allocate some amount of $$$$ for favors :(</p><p align="left">So.. after discussing with my lil' sis a.k.a my financial partner for this wedding plan (haha will be explained in another entry soon ;p), we decided to choose something that can be packed as earlier as one week before our reception day.</p><p align="left">Hurmm.. let's see.. ;) </p><p align="left"></p><p align="left">ps: tiba-tiba ja entry takde kena-mengena dengan tajuk ;p</p><p align="left"></p>nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-28242691056341605482010-09-30T21:31:00.003+08:002010-09-30T21:44:56.207+08:00Great Deal! Hammam Minfes!!Yah!! Moose!!<br /><br />Hammam Minfes is having promotion!!! (Sept-Oct 2010)<br /><br />EXCLUSIVE HAMMAM PACKAGE<br />Buy 4 x Hammam worth RM 120 each for RM 400 nett.<br />Sign up 4 times Hammam<br />**includes ONE FREE manicure**<br /><br />FRIENDLY PACKAGE<br />Introduce 2 FRIENDS to Hammam Minfes and enjoy<br />50% OFF for any treatment on your NEXT visit.<br />Your friends will be entitled to receive a 10% discount on any treatment instantly.<br /><br />COUPLE PACKAGE<br />**Hammam<br />**Massage or Facial<br />Total worth RM 400 will receive a light meal<br />(includes a light meal for TWO pax)<br /><br />*Term & Condition Apply<br /><br />Source: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/notes/hammam-minfes/september-to-october-promotion/122056824516567">Hammam Minfes</a><br /><br />Let see.. maybe I should go for the "Couple Package" before our wedding day.. plus a set of Morrocon meal would be nice (oh I really miss Turkish-style kebab! <span style="font-size:78%;">Dapat Morrocon-style pun jadi la</span> ;) )<br /><br />ps: Aci tak if I bring you both for "Friendly Package"? Then I'll get 50% off for my next-visit treatment..muahahaha ;Dnowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-41878378697489252882010-09-20T21:28:00.001+08:002010-09-29T22:04:44.134+08:00Back in Business!Fuh! Finally I decided to blog again!<br /><span style="font-size:78%;">(Note: Terima Kasih Zura kerana menyuruh saya berbuat begitu :) )</span><br /><br />..<br />..<br />..<br />..<br />..<br /><br />Alright.. alright.. maybe some 'teaser'..<br /><br /><br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 325px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 232px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5518991527064679858" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_BHqKHRAraLg/TJdljZEUtbI/AAAAAAAAAA0/N0CIluILl3E/s320/Lace+Nikah.gif" />..<br />..<br />..<br /><br />Will be back soon with more posts on wedding preps! :)<br /><p></p>nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8306026035808118314.post-55118076926296633322008-10-20T20:25:00.001+08:002010-09-29T22:04:19.186+08:00Männer und Frauen in Stress-Situationen<div align="justify"><strong>Frauen und Männer reden gern einmal an einander vorbei. Kein Wunder, denn sie erleben Situationen häufig sehr unterschiedlich und reagieren entsprechend ungleich.</strong></div><br /><div align="justify">Frauen ticken in vielen Lebensbereichen anders als Männer - soviel ist klar. Auch in der Medizin weiß man von den Unterschieden, die nicht so klein sind, wie viele vielleicht denken. So leben Frauen länger, während sich Männer über die bessere Gesundheit freuen können. Und dennoch sind es die Herren der Schöpfung, die früher einen Herzinfarkt erleiden.</div><div align="justify"><br />Heute weiß man, dass es nicht der kleine genetische Unterschied ist, der Frauen und Männer zu so ungleichen Wesen macht. Es sind vielmehr die unterschiedlichen Einflüsse der Lebensumstände, die mit den Geschlechtern verbunden sind. "Gender Medicin" heißt der Bereich in der Medizin, der sich mit den unterschiedlichen gesundheitlichen Bedürfnissen von Männern und Frauen beschäftigt. </div><div align="justify"><br />Doch man muss nicht studiert haben, um die eine oder andere Besonderheit zu kennen. Die Unterschiede zeigen sich bereits in alltäglichen Situationen.</div><div align="justify"><br />Welche Frau hat etwa noch nicht verständnislos geschaut, wenn ER vom Beifahrersitz aus nervöse Gesten macht, nur weil ER mal nicht hinter dem Steuer sitzt. Und welcher Mann hebt nicht ratlos die Schultern, wenn SIE aufgebracht über die Freundin redet, die sich seit Tagen nicht mehr meldet.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">Männer empfinden vor allem solche Situationen als stressig, in denen sie sich eingeengt fühlen oder einen Kontrollverlust fürchten. Frauen hingegen lassen sich eher von Konstellationen aus dem Gleichgewicht bringen, die ihr Harmonie-Bedürfnis gefährden. "Dabei handelt es sich nicht um angeborenes Verhalten, sondern vielmehr um ein Rollenverhalten, das erlernt ist. Deshalb kann es auch verändert werden", sagt Inga Margraf, Psychologin bei der Techniker Krankenkasse.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">Das klassische Rollenverhalten ist inzwischen glücklicherweise überholt und beide Geschlechter haben die Möglichkeit, sich ihre Rolle im Leben selbst zu suchen. Aufgrund dieser Freiheit geraten viele Männern und Frauen jedoch in Stress, denn häufig sehen sie sich im Konflikt mit dem klassischen Rollenverhalten und den Ansprüchen, die sie an sich selbst haben. </div><div align="justify"><br />So befürchten Männer etwa, zu nachgiebig und weich oder aber zu hart und dominant zu sein. Frauen hingegen haben Angst davor, den unterschiedlichen familiären, partnerschaftlichen und beruflichen Anforderungen nicht zeitgleich gerecht zu werden.</div><div align="justify"><br />Auch der Umgang mit Stress-Situationen ist sehr unterschiedlich. Männer reagieren sich häufig mit Sport ab, während Frauen Entspannungstechniken wie Yoga oder Gespräche mit Freunden nutzen, um den Druck abzubauen.<br /><br />Quelle: Nach Informationen der Techniker Krankenkasse (TK)</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">* credits to <a href="http://portal.gmx.net/">http://portal.gmx.net/</a> *</div>nowicannotspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582830837239972174noreply@blogger.com0